As we continue the discussion of how we can recognize Christian love in the Rocky series we are now in a totally different place in the marriage of Rocky and Adrian Balboa. Rocky is now the heavyweight champion of the world so he is now successful, wealthy and famous. One would could only wonder how that would change a couple that began their life on the streets of Philadelphia but we will see that genuine love remained at the center of their new life.
In the opening montage we see a man who looks much different than the club fighter from the first film. He has numerous victories over several contenders, has used part of his fortune to make changes to his oft injured face, and is now a global icon that associates with other public figures. Surprisingly, we also see the same mannerisms and affections between the Balboas, which is usually expressed in the way he looks for her after his victories in the ring. Outside of the ring their love continues to grow as they raise their young son in a life filled with luxury and comfort.
It doesn't seem like their lives could get any better.
Carlos Solorzano
During a public ceremony where the city of Philadelphia honors Rocky for all that he has done for the community, he is presented with a statue that draws great cheers and admiration from the crowd. He thanks the crowd and then talks to them about the possibility of retiring. That is when he is surprised by the dangerous Clubber Lang who accuses him of ducking him. That is when Rocky's manager Mickey Goldmill stands up for Rocky and tells him he won't get a title shot. What Rocky does not know is that Mickey feels this way because, as we also saw in the opening montage, he has scouted Lang and knows how dangerous he is. Things only get worse when Lang makes verbal advances towards Adrian, where Rocky defends his wife's honor, as he should.
It would not take long for Rocky to be surprised with a great truth. Lang was right with his accusation of Rocky ducking him, as Mickey had no intention of putting Rock in the ring with the dangerous challenger. He also confessed that he was careful with choosing the other contenders that he put him the ring with in order to protect him. In this case we can see that it was not just Mickey protecting the money machine as it was him caring about Rocky's well being.
Mickey was a father figure to Rocky but he had to come clean about what was going on behind the scenes. Rocky struggled with the truth and felt the need to prove himself. This was certainly a failure to see that his value as a person had nothing to do with facing and defeating Lang and, he had the right to live his life as he wished regardless of public opinion or his newfound celebrity. So, against Mickey's wishes, he takes the fight and trains in a nonchalant way as he sees it as going out in style. Right away, we can see that he was looking for fulfillment in something that would never satisfy his longing for true love.
Rocky not only loses the fight but is demolished and humiliated by Lang. Rocky also had to realize that everything Mickey said would happen, happened. It's one thing to realize that another fighter was simply the better man but Mickey warned Rocky that Lang would be more than he would could handle because of his skill and his hunger. On top of that, Mickey had a heart attack the night of fight thanks to a pre-fight skirmish and died.
This would be very hard to recover from, especially knowing that Mickey did out of love for him. Of course, some of Mickey's last words were, I love you kid.
One of the realities of the boxing world is that when two boxers test each other in a memorable match that a certain level of respect occurs between them. The first two films feature Rocky and now former champion Apollo Creed having two memorable bouts that are loved and remembered by both movie and boing fans. That is why Apollo comes to Rocky to speak to him about his loss to Clubber. He points out that Rocky lost the fight for all of the wrong reasons, that he doesn't want Rocky to walk away with regrets, and then offers to help him get the title back by training him. All of this comes from the fact that Apollo truly cares about Rocky and knows that he is capable of helping him regain what he lost fo the wrong reasons.
Do not neglect to do what is good and share what you have; God is pleased by sacrifices of that kind.
-Hebrews 13:16
While training for his rematch Rocky is still shaken up by his failure as well as the sudden loss of Mickey. Adrian confronts Rocky about his loss of motivation to which he claims has come from him not wanting to fight anymore. Adrian sees something more than this because she had never known Rocky to be a quitter.
While arguing on the beach she challenges Rocky to be honest with her. First he admits that he feels dishonest since he wasn't the champion that he thought he was. Adrian continued to push him though as she knew that there was more than Rocky cared to admit. Eventually, he comes clean and admits that he is afraid. This is a huge step for Rocky because of the fact that he is a fighter.
Adrian admits that she is afraid too and that there is nothing wrong with being afraid. Rocky sees his fear as a challenge to his manhood but Adrian reminds him that fear is a big part of being human. In other words, she doesn't accuse him of being weak or worse than that, less of a man. She in fact allows him to know that he is still good in her eyes even though he allowed her to see him at one of his weakest moments. Sadly, a lot of men are not married to women who would speak to them in this way.
She also reminds of the moment in the future where he will no longer be in the spotlight and how she doesn't want him to live with regret while. In this case, she is reminding him of what Apollo told him when he made the offer to train him but with her being Rocky's wife, she also reminded him that she was going to be there with him. This is the same woman from the last film who would not walk away from him when she feared that he could be permanently disabled. She is truly committed to him through the good and bad times and she is not afraid to challenge him to make things right. Adrian is not scolding Rocky to live up to some public persona. She is reminding him that he is the same good person that she fell in love before his celebrity life began.
Finally, Adrian tells Rocky that she and Apollo believe in him and that he should go after his title for the right reasons. Win or lose, if he simply does his best then she knows he can live with the outcome because he will have no excuses.
While arguing on the beach she challenges Rocky to be honest with her. First he admits that he feels dishonest since he wasn't the champion that he thought he was. Adrian continued to push him though as she knew that there was more than Rocky cared to admit. Eventually, he comes clean and admits that he is afraid. This is a huge step for Rocky because of the fact that he is a fighter.
Adrian admits that she is afraid too and that there is nothing wrong with being afraid. Rocky sees his fear as a challenge to his manhood but Adrian reminds him that fear is a big part of being human. In other words, she doesn't accuse him of being weak or worse than that, less of a man. She in fact allows him to know that he is still good in her eyes even though he allowed her to see him at one of his weakest moments. Sadly, a lot of men are not married to women who would speak to them in this way.
She also reminds of the moment in the future where he will no longer be in the spotlight and how she doesn't want him to live with regret while. In this case, she is reminding him of what Apollo told him when he made the offer to train him but with her being Rocky's wife, she also reminded him that she was going to be there with him. This is the same woman from the last film who would not walk away from him when she feared that he could be permanently disabled. She is truly committed to him through the good and bad times and she is not afraid to challenge him to make things right. Adrian is not scolding Rocky to live up to some public persona. She is reminding him that he is the same good person that she fell in love before his celebrity life began.
Finally, Adrian tells Rocky that she and Apollo believe in him and that he should go after his title for the right reasons. Win or lose, if he simply does his best then she knows he can live with the outcome because he will have no excuses.
....and you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.
-John 8:32
The most important thing about Adrian's approach is that she didn't break him down in order to hurt him. She broke through the walls he put up in order to bring back the man that she knew was still inside of him. This was a healthy argument.
Let us be reminded now of a simple but powerful quote: The purpose of marriage is to get your spouse to heaven. Another way of saying this is when one tells their beloved: you make me want to be a better person.
All of this of course, was the easy part as there was still a huge boxing match ahead. Just like their marriage, the match featured many ups and downs with Adrian being there the entire time. When he did well she cheered for him. When he struggled she was concerned. When he was down and out she pleaded for his suffering to end, even if it meant stopping the fight; but she never left his side. Even though he had to be completely focused on his task at hand there had to be a part of him that knew that she was in the ring with him.
Eventually Rocky conquered what seemed to be an invincible opponent and regained his championship. As he was raised up by the men in his corner we see an exhausted fighter who is relieved of the burden he had been carrying. However, there is a certain peace that comes over him once he sees Adrian. This is not just from Adrian's encouragement during his preparation for this bout. We have seen her commitment through the films thus far.
All of this of course, was the easy part as there was still a huge boxing match ahead. Just like their marriage, the match featured many ups and downs with Adrian being there the entire time. When he did well she cheered for him. When he struggled she was concerned. When he was down and out she pleaded for his suffering to end, even if it meant stopping the fight; but she never left his side. Even though he had to be completely focused on his task at hand there had to be a part of him that knew that she was in the ring with him.
Eventually Rocky conquered what seemed to be an invincible opponent and regained his championship. As he was raised up by the men in his corner we see an exhausted fighter who is relieved of the burden he had been carrying. However, there is a certain peace that comes over him once he sees Adrian. This is not just from Adrian's encouragement during his preparation for this bout. We have seen her commitment through the films thus far.
Before she embraced him she asked are you alright in which he responds never better before collapsing on her shoulder. One could only wonder if his response was because he had regained his title or because he was in the arms of his beloved Adrian.
Who can find a woman of worth? Far beyond jewels is her value. Her husband trusts her judgment; he does not lack income. She brings him profit, not loss, all the days of her life.
-Proverbs 31:10-12
- BA & MA in Religious Studies from Cal State Long Beach
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